Exactly Deborah.

Please men. Step up.

Believe us when we tell you about the low level sexual harassment we endure regularly here in New Zealand. And please, when you see it happening call the perps out on their behaviour.

Because the guys who do this don't listen to us. But they will listen to other men. Especially older more experienced men.

I don't attend concerts anymore. They simply are not safe spaces for me to be in, even with my husband. I don't feel safe.

And that's not good enough New Zealand.