It's called sentimentalism.
Sentimentalists are they who seek to enjoy Reality without incurring the Immense Debtorship for a thing done.
I still think we're fucked. Sigh.
Danielle, sweetie, get out there, do the right thing, and help to push NZ First over 5% -- and maybe you won't be fucked after all.
PEOPLE LIKE YOU SHOULDN'T BE ALLOWED TO HAVE CHILDREN!!