DAMIAN!!!! ALERT!!! ALERT!!!! IT WAS ALL A TERRIBLE MISTAKE!!!!!
In a spirit of compassion, I used my facebook to send Tze a lovely message of support- ALAS! SHE IS NOT SINGLE!!!!! An administrative error, just like the accidental status comment I made about my head getting stuck up my bottom during bikram yoga- uh, yeah...
I think though, that Tze could do with some support anyway from you, like, bottles of wine, and probably something harder to drink when all these weirdos from your blog start sending facebook messages and thinking she might be a hot friend they could date...
Poor Tze Ming Mok... I didn't have facebook when my relationship dissolved in a nuclear like meltdown, thank goodness. I think, by the way, Facebook has chatting applications so you can chat instantly (with all your friends' hot friends!!) Why don't you just install chat? Or do you not have weeks of holidays like me where you just hang out on the web annoying people who are working? No, I guess not.
Coming from an alcoholic family, I have to say that judgmental behaviour and disapproval doesn't really do anything to make a difference to people who are suffering from addiction- and I learned the hard way, not talking to my own family for the past ten years. True enough, that's probably a blessing for them rather than a punishment, and it doesn't exactly equate with the argument for keeping BZP legal, but my personal take on it has been to place greater emphasis on delivering small kindnesses than on delivering ultimatums. Policing people only puts the burden on society...
The way you put it is better!
But actually I was stopping by to congratulate you for getting an article in Metro. Nice one!!