Posts by Gee
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Up Front: Sex with Parrots, in reply to
Your prioritisation of Rationalist mathematical ideals over the needs and choices of slutty polyamorists is putting Descartes before the whores.
nominee for best pun in the thread
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okay so this is tangential but have just found a new site aimed at stopping victim-blaming and slut-shaming
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Did the tarps hold? Did the place survive the rain?
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The big move is here! Congrats on all the hard work to get to this point, and good luck for today!
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Up Front: Towards a Sex-Positive Utopia, in reply to
I feel like this might have been linked to already, but I can't seem to find it.....
The Swedes have a new gender neutral pronoun -
one persons fish is another persons cabbage
t-shirt?
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Up Front: Towards a Sex-Positive Utopia, in reply to
I can't speak for more repressive societies, but within this one, people already can do pretty much whatever they want within the law.
I think you've confused 'law' with 'society' here. The day that, for example, a schoolteacher could teach their students about sex of all shapes, forms and preferences, including none and not just puberty, could discuss polyamory, bisexuality, BDSM, asexuality, porn and the missionary position openly, is the day that society allows people to be who they are without judgment. Law makes criminals of people doing some or all of these things in many places, but societal acceptance and real tolerance is often completely unrelated to the legal environment. The sex-pos Utopia we're dreaming of here would allow me to be open about my preferences, choices and beliefs rather than feeling I have to hide them from others. If I still have to bite my tongue in a professional setting when someone makes a sneering comment about a woman who enjoys sex being a slut, then am I in a free society?
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Up Front: Towards a Sex-Positive Utopia, in reply to
Can 'erotic' be about more than sex?
This is how I see a good night out dancing -- as refreshing and erotic and sexy as some sex can be and it has nothing to do with the persons I'm dancing with but with the energy and the movement and the rhythm and the vibrations. Like Emma said, I don't think of things in a sexual/not sexual dichotomy.
And like Jackie I want to say how much I've learned from all the commenters here. Thanks for the schooling and for the Conversation.
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Up Front: Towards a Sex-Positive Utopia, in reply to
If we can combine that with a socialist utopia in which everyone gets paid properly & protected in their work environment, and those with specific needs who can't otherwise afford it are taken care of via government vouchers, it'll be perfect!
+1
I'm struggling to come up with a male singer marketed to teenager *girls* as aggressively masculine. There must be some.
Kurt Cobain? Trent Reznor? Axl Rose? tho admittedly both aimed at boys/men too...
maybe Anthony Keidis and Flea? Or was that just me?