Public Address | Cafe | Up Front: Too Sexy for Your Site https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/ en-us Copyright (c) 2026 Public Address Moz https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377077#post377077 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377077#post377077 If I move it would be back in Aotearoa. But yeah, jobs in my industry at my pay level are very rare in NZ. So I probably can't afford to do that until I retire/can get my compulsory superannuation savings back out of the system.

Also, Australian politics is worse,…

]]> Wed, 15 Nov 2017 22:14:39 +1300 Moz https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377076#post377076 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377076#post377076 Dude, you need to move.

Sadly the options on that front are not great. I'm rich enough to have a mortgage, but not rich enough to afford anywhere desirable. Lakemba is actually quite tolerant and accepting, there's a lot of quiet-but-strong religious feeling. The thing is that even the most…

]]> Wed, 15 Nov 2017 22:00:19 +1300 Emma Hart https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377075#post377075 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377075#post377075 Though I take the point that it's often actually used as a block, "I don't need to know about it" is at least on the continuum through "it's none of my business" to the realisation "I don't get to have an opinion about it".

The thing about "I don't need…

]]> Wed, 15 Nov 2017 21:01:07 +1300 Moz https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377074#post377074 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377074#post377074 require "acceptance", except from people I actually care about, and equal representation in the law.

I dunno, at work it would be quite nice if there was any chance of acceptance, but that is down to the individuals I work with. And some of them are not especially tolerant. In…

]]> Wed, 15 Nov 2017 13:32:44 +1300 TracyMac https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377067#post377067 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377067#post377067 Oh yeah, I am all good with "tolerance", and don't actually require "acceptance", except from people I actually care about, and equal representation in the law.

What I get annoyed by is the manifest hypocrisy in the "I don't care about your bedroom" line in the instance where they themselves…

]]> Tue, 14 Nov 2017 19:22:17 +1300 Moz https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377066#post377066 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377066#post377066 #dangerousemma? #getsoffinmriscanners? Actually, wouldn't that be an expensive kink.

who wear wedding rings and constantly refer to "the hubby" and "the wife"

It's somewhat worse when they regularly have unprompted bitch sessions about their *ex* wife and how .... {eyeroll} and then say "why would gays want marriage? I don't".…

]]> Tue, 14 Nov 2017 17:55:44 +1300 Moz https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377065#post377065 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377065#post377065 spreadsheets are a step too far! On a serious note, I actually love PDAs

But surely you need the PDA to view spreadsheets on? Laptops and sex are just not a good combination. Well, except for solo sex, obviously.

]]> Tue, 14 Nov 2017 17:49:37 +1300 linger https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377063#post377063 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377063#post377063 Tue, 14 Nov 2017 17:27:42 +1300 TracyMac https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377062#post377062 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377062#post377062 Yup, this also speaks to people who complain about pride parades or being corrected about your partner's gender, and who claim they're all cool about it, but state, "I don't know why they/you make such a fuss – I don't need to know what goes on in someone's bedroom!"

Often…

]]> Tue, 14 Nov 2017 15:53:36 +1300 Bart Janssen https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377058#post377058 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377058#post377058 You called me "default"!

Also the thing that really boggles my mind is the spreadsheets. Totally fine with kids being made aware of and given an understanding differing sexual practices and love, but really – spreadsheets are a step too far!

On a serious note, I actually love PDAs and…

]]> Tue, 14 Nov 2017 12:00:38 +1300 Public Address https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377057#post377057 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/up-front-too-sexy-for-your-site/?p=377057#post377057 Discussion from blog post.

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