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				<title>Tony Parker</title>
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						On sad note to end the year it appears Vic Chestnutt has died after taking an overdose. A sad end to a hard life. He produced some great music and I'm glad I made the effort to go and see him earlier in the year down in Wellington.
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				<pubDate>Sat, 26 Dec 2009 17:29:44 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Sofie Bribiesca</title>
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						<blockquote>but any place where you can't get a drink and sit and chat with people is kinda tough.</blockquote> Well there is that. Your book is great.I really do feel like I am wandering down memory lane. I managed visits via Laguna Beach and stop offs in Santa Cruz to catch…
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				<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 20:25:59 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Steve Barnes</title>
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						<blockquote><p>I am optimistic that 2010 will be, at least, better.</p></blockquote><p>Hurrumph. Isn't that what John Key promised us for 2009 with his new fangled government? Better? Humbug. 2009 will go down in my history book as one of the worst years in memory.<br />Apart from PAS of course, which remained…</p>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 13:51:06 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>ScottY</title>
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						For me personally it has been a good year. With two young ones at home there has been much sleep deprivation, and I've felt tired all year. I am looking forward to the "break" (i.e. being run ragged by two under threes for days on end). But it's been a…
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				<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 09:45:30 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Hilary Stace</title>
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						And goodbye to Kim Peek, the man the movie, Rain Man , was based on. Died in the US aged 58.  Rain Man was 'the foundational text in the cinematic representation of autism' says Stuart Murray of Leeds University and probably the person who has had the most to say…
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				<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 09:19:55 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>giovanni tiso</title>
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						<blockquote><p>I also think that there is something really nasty brewing in American politics, and that we will see the first real fruits of it next year. Ugh.</p></blockquote><p>I was going to poo-poo your pessimism but then I read that Bondy has retired from test cricket so yeah, I think that's…</p>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 08:34:44 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Graham Reid</title>
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						<p>You really are reading my book Sofie! Cool.</p><p>Yes, I agree it does depend on when you go to a place. For the benefit of the rest of you who don't know what we are talking about, I went to Brunei . . . during Ramadan. Different vibe &mdash; but…</p>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 07:40:25 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>pollywog</title>
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						<p>hmmmm...maybe there really is  something prophetic about 2012.</p><p>was at a party the other night and some cute canadian good time traveller was talking about all the places she'd been, the drugs she'd taken blah blah blah and the conversation turned to movies. 2012 came up and she starts talking…</p>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 12:08:55 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Caleb D&#039;Anvers</title>
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						<blockquote><p>I think next year is going to be turbulent &ndash; but not necessarily in a bad way. A bit like the late 60s. Turbulent activism, turbulent protest and probably turbulent weather.</p></blockquote><p>Good call, Hilary. It's also forecast to be the hottest year in recorded human history. I'm thinking a global…</p>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 11:45:06 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Islander</title>
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						I'm beginning to distrust this millenium's odd-numbered years...2001, death of a close family member, family friction and a lot of legal angst; 2003, personal probs like arthritis really starting to kick-in, and family illness; 2005, really hideous year for family illnesses, and 2007 ditto, culminating in the death of one…
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				<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 11:24:50 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Sofie Bribiesca</title>
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						This will probably mean nothing but now at page116 of Mr Reid's fine book "The Idiot Boy Who Flew", I feel compelled to tell Graham that I and Steve have been to Brunei.We went on the Sultans birthday and it really does make a difference.The whole town has a party…
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				<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 11:00:40 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Hilary Stace</title>
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						I think next year is going to be turbulent &ndash; but not necessarily in a bad way. A bit like the late 60s. Turbulent, activism, turbulent protest and probably turbulent weather.
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				<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 13:31:35 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>recordari</title>
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						<p>Cancer, suicide, breakups and more cancer.  It has been a year for grown up stuff, and I'm regressing towards my childhood as it goes on.  So yes, 2009, go away and leave me alone.</p><p>On the flip side some lives have been saved, and the good thing about really crap…</p>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 09:47:00 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>pollywog</title>
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						<p>i dont dine on the swine so the x-mass ham thing doesnt do it for me.</p><p>they year itself started good, got a bit shit in the middle, picked up towards the end and is still picking up.</p><p>musically, i mourned the death of hiphop, the passing of michael jackson…</p>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 09:30:39 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Lucy Stewart</title>
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						<blockquote><p>My family is developing a tradition of trying to cook the ham on the BBQ, letting the fat run off to the tray, which then catches fire, cooking the lid of the BBQ, flames six feet high, almost setting the house on fire.</p><p>But each to their own I guess.</p></blockquote><p>…</p>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 09:10:02 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>giovanni tiso</title>
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						I'll be happy to see the back of 2009 as well, because of reasons. But I'm glad it didn't uniformly suck for everybody.
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				<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 08:26:50 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Joanna</title>
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						Let me join the chorus of those saying Two Thousand and Whine can fuck off already with its redundancies, burglaries and hospitalisations, and that's just the start of <em>my</em> list of complaints about it, to say nothing of all the crap that my friends have been through as well...
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				<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 01:28:35 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Sofie Bribiesca</title>
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						<blockquote>and then we lost a family member </blockquote> Well that was a bummer then. Sorry to hear of your loss. We lost 2 family and it really does zap the bejesus out of one (with hindsight). One thing I do appreciate from the mexican side of my family is the celebration…
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 21:53:07 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>UncleMike</title>
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						Also going for the free range hippy ham. And at $130 it better be a big fat squealer! Still at least it got to walk the earth before my family consumes it.
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 21:51:34 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Isabel Hitchings</title>
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						<p>Our year wasn't really that flash and then we lost a family member to suicide in August. I will be very very glad to see the back of 2009.</p><p>I am optimistic that 2010 will be, at least, better.</p>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 19:48:55 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Kyle Matthews</title>
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						<blockquote><p>It's not Christmas unless you're eating ham for the next fortnight because the person responsible for ham purchasing bought an enormous one in a moment of over-enthusiasm. At least, that's how it always worked in my family.</p></blockquote><p>My family is developing a tradition of trying to cook the ham on…</p>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 16:52:06 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Geoff Lealand</title>
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						<p>A good year, except for the terrible middle bit, when a close friend died in a snow storm in the Tararuas.</p><p>Thank you, Graham,  for all your insights into good music this year. I have purchased at least 6 CDs based on your recommendations.</p>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 16:44:19 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Dinah Dunavan</title>
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						Ham freezes well. Mum would slice lots of it and freeze in suitable sized packages for the weeks to follow.
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 16:41:30 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Lucy Stewart</title>
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						<blockquote><p>Mmmmm... surplus ham.</p></blockquote><p>It's not Christmas unless you're eating ham for the next fortnight because the person responsible for ham purchasing bought an enormous one in a moment of over-enthusiasm. At least, that's how it always worked in my family.</p>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 16:35:24 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>andin</title>
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						<p>As years go its was a middling year. Enjoyed your writing and am annoyed I cant listen to more music. But from now on I'm more inclined to lump years together into decades and wonder how different 2019 will be.<br />All the best.</p>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 15:01:38 +1300</pubDate>
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						Mmmmm... surplus ham.
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 15:01:14 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Paul Campbell</title>
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						2009 was a sucky year I've spent way too much of it on the road. Friends have passed away too young, others have been struck with cancer &ndash; we declared it over a month ago, roll on the new year
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 13:23:14 +1300</pubDate>
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						<p>Discussion from blog post.</p>
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