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				<title>Craig Ranapia</title>
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						<blockquote><p>Uh, ex founding campaign strategist for the party in question is surely more accurate than "pundit" in McCarten's case.</p></blockquote><p>Yeah, and Michelle Boag is a former President of the National Party &mdash; but I'd still take anything she has to say with a grain of salt and plenty of tequila.</p>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 23:38:22 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Sacha</title>
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						Uh, ex founding campaign strategist for the party in question is surely more accurate than "pundit" in McCarten's case.
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 23:28:30 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Craig Ranapia</title>
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						<blockquote><p>I wouldn't put money on the Maori Party surviving that three-way fight.</p></blockquote><p>To be honest, I wouldn't bet the Christmas Club money on the punditocracy getting anything about the Maori Party right.  Their form is, to use a technical gambling term, a wee bit shit. :)</p>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 23:09:54 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>giovanni tiso</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 22:58:46 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Craig Ranapia</title>
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						<blockquote><p>Anybody who thinks that Hide's short or long term viability as a politician has been in any way damaged by his recent escapades is seriously deluded.</p></blockquote><p>Let's just say that I'm reliably informed that Rodney has made his position a lot more difficult that it really needs to be, and…</p>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 22:35:33 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Sacha</title>
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						<blockquote><p>Harawira, on the other hand, is done.</p></blockquote><p>Matt McCarten has a <a href="http://www.nzherald.co.nz/politics/news/article.cfm?c_id=280&amp;objectid=10609284&amp;pnum=0" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">different take</a> on that (though he seems to be downplaying the long-term frustrations within the leadership about Harawira):</p><blockquote><p>The hysteria this week has panicked the Maori Party into thinking it has to take drastic steps. Turia has decided there's no…</p></blockquote>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 12:41:46 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>giovanni tiso</title>
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						<blockquote><p>How many times do I have to keep calling bullshit on that? Sorry, but anyone who thinks Hide has someone dropped off the radar over the last week either needs to open both their eyes or just stop lying.</p></blockquote><p>Anybody who thinks that Hide's short or long term viability as…</p>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 11:57:06 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Russell C</title>
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						<blockquote><p>how many times do I have to keep calling bullshit on that? Sorry, but anyone who thinks Hide has someone dropped off the radar over the last week either needs to open both their eyes or just stop lying.</p></blockquote><p>Very colourful Craig and oh so temperate ... so you really…</p>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 11:47:55 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Craig Ranapia</title>
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						<blockquote><p>And if you disagree with Lynn Prentice, you're a pig-f***er who looks up skirts.</p></blockquote><p>Ah, yes... throw offal in the water and pretend to be surprised &mdash; nay, <em>shocked</em> and <em>offended</em> &mdash; when the sharks show up.  A little attention-grabber both Prentice and Farrar indulge in far too often for…</p>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 00:09:17 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>George  Darroch</title>
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						<blockquote><p>Because, of course, criticising an MP is just like a pack of Klansmen torturing and murdering black folks. And he's got the gall to accuse DPF of "dog-whistling" Dixie?</p></blockquote><p>And if you disagree with Lynn Prentice, you're a pig-f***er who looks up skirts.</p>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 14 Nov 2009 23:58:42 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Craig Ranapia</title>
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						<p>Elsewhere, really lovely to see The Standard's"lprent" <a href="http://www.thestandard.org.nz/i-dont-give-a-shit-about-hone-but-the-lynch-mob-is-interesting/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">throwing out the troll bait Chris Trotter-style</a>.</p><p>Because, of course, criticising an MP is <em>just</em> like a pack of Klansmen torturing and murdering black folks.  And he's got the gall to accuse DPF of "dog-whistling" Dixie while, once more, trivialising obscene racist violence…</p>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 14 Nov 2009 23:56:13 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Russell C</title>
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						<p>It does occur to me that Rodney Hide really ought to buy Hone a big drink and/or shout him another all expenses paid trip back to Paris for the mammoth distraction from Rodney's indiscretions with public funds .  </p><p>All the media oxygen has been sucked up by the MoFos and…</p>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 14 Nov 2009 15:08:01 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>81stcolumn</title>
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						<p>There are apologies then of course there are <a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/sport2/hi/football/teams/m/man_utd/8314326.stm" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">"Fergusons"</a> &ndash;<br />Apologies with a follow up meeting about why you were wrong to make me apologise.</p>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 10:30:31 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Matt Swinson</title>
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						<p>Moving from the 'sorry' topic on to more of a 'thank you' &ndash; Graham, that BLK JKS album you note on Music From Elsewhere is an absolute gem!</p><p>Can see where you're getting the TV on the Radio theme from &ndash; slightly more headfucky though. Great piece of music erudition.…</p>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 08:19:15 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Russell Clarke</title>
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						<p>So Hone has dismissed the suggestion of him becoming an independent MP as the 'silliest idea he has heard'. </p><p>More like the best offer he'll get...</p>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 20:57:31 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Sacha</title>
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						<blockquote><p>Very Big Male Chicken</p></blockquote><p>May that phrase catch on.</p>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 19:04:56 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Craig Ranapia</title>
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						<p>I've been thinking about this week's radio rant, and I think I've found my topic sentence in the wake of Messers Harawira and Mallard getting called out on calling Chris Finlayson "Tinkerbell'.</p><p>**Outsourcing your nastiness to the caucus "attack dog" does not make you nice &mdash; just a cowardly, hypocritical…</p>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 18:03:22 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>andin</title>
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						<blockquote><p>It's almost home time, enough with the subtle. That took my brain like 10 clicks to figure out!</p></blockquote><p>Good job our trackydax friend from Nelson is out walking his....VBMC</p>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 17:14:47 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Kyle Matthews</title>
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						<blockquote><p>I just thought he was a Very Big Male Chicken</p></blockquote><p>It's almost home time, enough with the subtle. That took my brain like 10 clicks to figure out!</p>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 16:39:16 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Rich of Observationz</title>
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						<blockquote><p>I find the the release of the recording of Gordon Brown's phone conversation an appalling breach of trust.</p></blockquote><p>A communication is only confidential if *both* sides agree it is.</p>
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				<title>Rich of Observationz</title>
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						<blockquote><p>Gordon Brown's remorse in relation to the death of a British soldier...seemed genuine</p></blockquote><p>But he hasn't stopped the offending activity. He's still sending troops off to a colonial occupation of someone else's country. Until he realised that and brings them home, what's remorse and apology.</p>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 16:20:20 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>andrew llewellyn</title>
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						<blockquote><p>on the balcony in Tabac trying to prove me wrong. I wasn't offended, I just thought he was a Very Big Male Chicken,<br />Funny I was out late one night in town and I saw a VBMC, and I thought it was the drugs.</p></blockquote><p>Even funnier, in 1995, if you…</p>
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				<title>andin</title>
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						<blockquote><p>working for charity in a way that wasn't part of some 'image rehabilitation' strategy cooked up by a publicist or political spin doctor.</p></blockquote><p>I can think of many people who would benefit from anonymous rehabilitation. And no, not DJ's.</p><blockquote><p>on the balcony in Tabac trying to prove me wrong. I…</p></blockquote>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:34:00 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Craig Ranapia</title>
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						<p>Emma:</p><p>You'll always be a high-riding, ball-breaking bitch to me. :)</p>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:25:14 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Emma Hart</title>
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						<blockquote><p>If I said yes, would you be offended, would I then have to apologize?</p></blockquote><p>I have been called a bitch by some* of my closest friends. </p><p>And I nearly said, "I'm very hard to offend" but the last person I said that to subsequently spent about an hour on the…</p>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:21:04 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Steve Barnes</title>
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						<blockquote><p>"I'm sorry for, y'know, everything."</p></blockquote><p>Slight rephrase, "I'm Sorry, for you know everything"<br />I had to apologise once, for making a mistake. I had said I was wrong, when in all honesty, I wasn't.</p>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:12:53 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Richard Aston</title>
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						<blockquote><p>Does that make me a bitch?</p></blockquote><p>If I said yes, would you be offended, would I then have to apologize?</p>
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						<blockquote><p>"I'm sorry that any offence was taken" is a really slimy passive-aggressive way of not taking ownership for your own behaviour.</p></blockquote><p>Disagree. Often, sure, but not <em>necessarily</em>.</p>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:07:44 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Russell Brown</title>
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						<blockquote><p>Mmm, see... If I should, say, use the word 'niggardly', and somebody listening became offended because they believed it to be a racist slur, I wouldn't feel any obligation to apologise for their offense. Does that make me a bitch?</p></blockquote><p>Oh god. <a href="http://publicaddress.net/system/topic,707,speaker-mixing-it-up-with-stats-like.sm?i=60#forum-replies" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">We actually had that one</a>, didn't we?</p><p>I…</p>
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				<title>James Littlewood</title>
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						<blockquote><p>If I don't think I have a damn thing to apologise for, then I'll say so.</p></blockquote><p>But what if you genuinely regret that your best intended actions upset someone?</p><p>After all, it might be someone you like, or want to be liked by.</p>
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				<title>Craig Ranapia</title>
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						<blockquote><p>I don't regret my words, but I do regret your taking offence at what I say. I'm sorry, but I stand by I'm saying.</p><p>But in the real world, not even Helen Clark's best teflon survived  that defense.</p></blockquote><p>"I'm sorry that any offence was taken" is a really slimy passive-aggressive…</p>
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				<title>James Littlewood</title>
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						<p>To be sorry can mean to apologise, but it can also mean to sympathise. To be sorrowful is to be regretful. If a statement that is spoken in truth and honesty offends someone else, then the latter meaning may be entirely appropriate.</p><p>I don't regret my words, but I do…</p>
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				<title>Emma Hart</title>
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						<p>Mmm, see... If I should, say, use the word 'niggardly', and somebody listening became offended because they believed it to be a racist slur, I wouldn't feel any obligation to apologise for their offense. Does that make me a bitch? </p><p>(The answer is of course, no, that was all those…</p>
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				<title>Craig Ranapia</title>
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						<blockquote><p>It just wasnt the British way.<br />"Take it on chin Old Boy" is a fine sentiment in that situation.</p></blockquote><p>Up to a point, but his son wrote a memoir a few year back, and it comes across that John Profumo was sincerely and deeply ashamed of how his affair hurt…</p>
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				<title>Richard Aston</title>
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						<blockquote><p>"no offense meant, no apology necessary".</p></blockquote><p>Not sure I buy this and I have heard this said a few times. </p><p>The original Latin meaning for the word apology (apologia) was to speak in one's defense , in which case you Dutch man was probably right , he you are not…</p>
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				<title>Dinah Dunavan</title>
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						Years ago I did some post graduate study with a group of other 'mature' students. One of them was a fairly recent immigrant from Holland. He said something that many of us found quite offensive. One woman in particular was very upset. I quietly suggested to him that he apologise…
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				<title>andin</title>
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						<p>Yeah, Scandal was a great film. It had character arcs not one dimensional figures, if my memory serves me well.</p><blockquote><p>No book deals or lachrymose appearances on Oprah for the Profumos.</p></blockquote><p>It just wasnt the British way.<br /> "Take it on chin Old Boy" is a fine sentiment in that situation.</p>
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				<title>Sylvie Zlami</title>
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						<p>Excellent post Graham!<br />I always groan when I hear public apologies ... usually they're carefully crafted elements of the political theatre and not worth the time we spend listening to them. Frankly, I put them in the same category as marketing messages. <br />A well rehearsed “sorry” is about as meaningful…</p>
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				<title>Craig Ranapia</title>
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						<blockquote><p>Does that training stick or does it come unstuck when they leave office.</p></blockquote><p>Well, look at <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Profumo" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">John Profumo</a> who might be best remembered for giving his name to the mac daddy of sex scandals (though it wasn't his extra-marital affair that ultimately cooked his has, but lying about it in…</p>
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				<title>andin</title>
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						<blockquote><p>An apology by a politician who appears contrite probably doesn't mean much. These people are politicians, they are trained to fake sincerity.</p></blockquote><p>Is that cynicism creep or a fatal indictment of our society?</p><p>Does that training stick or does it come unstuck when they leave office.</p>
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				<title>Tom Semmens</title>
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						<p>Oh as for Hone Hawawira &ndash; I think Key might be right, the public has made it's judgement on the man. He is politically dead, no one will take him seriously again. </p><p>From now on he will be treated the way you treat a taxi driver offering an unsolicited opinion.…</p>
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				<title>Tom Semmens</title>
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						<p>I find the the release of the recording of Gordon Brown's phone conversation an appalling breach of trust.</p><p>Unfortunately, the message politicians of all stripes will take from it will be that they simply shouldn't bother trying to have unscripted encounters with the public.</p>
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				<title>Danielle</title>
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						<blockquote><p>If that came from a guy, it might not have been quite the apology it sounds like.</p></blockquote><p>So I can only roll *two* eyes at this? Why don't humans grow more eyes, dammit?</p>
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				<title>Richard Aston</title>
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						Great post Graham &ndash; your right &ndash; so many light weight apologies so few meaningful sorrys. Its a bloody hard thing to do and its a vulnerable place to go . Maybe it does take time along with courage and humility to really say sorry and mean it. Maybe we…
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				<title>Craig Ranapia</title>
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						What I really loved about Hone's exercise in using the Passive-Aggressive Voice was when he said "motherfucker" is demeaning to women &mdash; no it's not, it's demeaning when thrown at anyone, given that we live in a culture where parent-child incest is not only taboo  but criminal &mdash; but apparently…
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				<title>Lyndon Hood</title>
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						<blockquote><p>he'd justified his personal behaviour in going AWOL (including lying to his party leader and the Speaker) on the basis of colonial wrongdoing</p></blockquote><p>That's pretty much my whole beef with the post-Paris side of the business.</p><p>[Though re: the being-sick thing he said that was a misunderstanding. I don't know…</p>
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				<title>Emma Hart</title>
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						<blockquote><p>Best apology I've ever received: "You're right, I was wrong. I'm sorry." Simple, to the point, and takes the wind out of the sails of anyone gearing up for an argument.</p></blockquote><p>Yeah, pretty much. Mine, from an ex-boyfriend: "I'm sorry for, y'know, everything."</p>
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				<title>Tom Semmens</title>
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						<blockquote><p>"You're right, I was wrong. I'm sorry."</p></blockquote><p>If that came from a guy, it might not have been quite the apology it sounds like.</p>
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				<title>Kyle Matthews</title>
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						<blockquote><p>Like you, I have hitherto had a lot of time for him.</p></blockquote><p>I didn't particularly mind when he went off in Australia rather than do the select committee thing. It was rude to his fellow committee members, but at least he did something with the time that I thought came…</p>
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				<title>Rachael J</title>
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						Best apology I've ever received: "You're right, I was wrong. I'm sorry." Simple, to the point, and takes the wind out of the sails of anyone gearing up for an argument.
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				<title>Leigh  Kennaway</title>
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						Apologies? They're becoming iconic kiwi behaviour it seems.
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				<title>George  Darroch</title>
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						<blockquote><p>I think go-go dancing is perfectly comprehensible*: it is saying 'here, look at my bullet-bra boobs'.</p></blockquote><p>I was distracted by their arms. Sorry.</p>
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				<title>James Littlewood*</title>
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						<p>Jacque Derrida reminds us that an apology is only meaningful if offered for an act that is unforgivable. His example is the S.A. reconciliation thing, but of course, there are more personal possibilities ...</p><p>I often wonder if apologies get a bad rap in western culture. We tend to suck…</p>
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				<title>Russell Brown</title>
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						<blockquote><p>I still like what he stands for, but I wonder whether his ego is getting the better of him. That would be a pity, because he has always been a very sincere MP, in my experience.</p></blockquote><p>I think he's been too cute by half this week. He spent most of…</p>
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				<title>Danielle</title>
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						<blockquote><p>But it is still a great song by the Easybeats.</p></blockquote><p>Oh boy, is it what! I clearly need to investigate them further, rather than just bopping about to 'Friday on My Mind'...</p><blockquote><p>Holy shit, that video has go-go dancers. That dance is less comprehensible than crumping.</p></blockquote><p>The male go-go dancer…</p>
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						<p>Thanks, that really is a superb post from Graeme Reed.*</p><p>Don't forget "hindsight". As in, "with the benefit of hindsight, I accept that constantly trying to grope the office staff and threatening to sack anyone who complained was inappropriate". Because I couldn't possibly have known that in advance.</p><p>Extra points…</p>
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						<p>The word sorry also doesn't mean anything if you don't change your ways, and continue on with the same behaviour. People I know are beginning to wonder, or have for some time, what Kevin Rudd's apology to the Stolen Generations (but not to Aboriginal Australia) actually meant.</p><p>Hone was on…</p>
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						<p>I kind of disagree that the word sorry is over used.</p><p>All too often people seem to go to extraordinary lengths to avoid having to use the word when they've fucked up. Even to the extent of avoid repairing the harm because that would be like admitting there was a…</p>
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						Holy shit, that video has go-go dancers. That dance is less comprehensible than crumping.
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				<title>Sofie Bribiesca</title>
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						<blockquote><p>I make no apologies for it. But if anyone does take offence then . .</p></blockquote><p>Whilst I don't feel I need to apologise, I thought I would apologise for  any offence taken by this<br /><a href="http://www.nzherald.co.nz/business/news/article.cfm?c_id=3&amp;objectid=10608494" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">lil' controversial building</a></p>
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						<blockquote><p>it is of modest ambition and good humour in places, and I (of course) think would make an excellent Christmas present,</p></blockquote><p>Could you bring me a signed copy to the book launch on Dec 2.You are going aren't you? I know I promised to get to your book launch but…</p>
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						<p>Gordon Brown's remorse in relation to the death of a British soldier &ndash; and some fuckups in a subsequent letter seemed genuine &ndash; and he said sorry about 13 times in a <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/politics/2009/nov/10/transcript-jacqui-janes-gordon-brown" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">personal phone-call</a> following up on the whole saga.</p><p>As for Mssrs Hide and Harawira &ndash; the former is…</p>
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						Awesome!
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