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				<title>InternationalObserver</title>
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						<p><a href="http://mediasnuff.blogspot.com/2007/06/feral-beasts-and-feeding-frenzies.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">the ordeal Debbie Gerbich went through</a></p><p>Wow! That's quite an interesting link you provided David. Not only the story, but the comment at the end:</p><blockquote><p>James said...</p><p>    This reminds me of my ex-girlfriend. A few years ago mosques in Auckland were attacked with graffiti of swastikas and racist messages. My…</p></blockquote>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 11:22:26 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>David Slack</title>
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						I've had very reassuring email messages from parents writing in praise of their kids' experiences of Takapuna Grammar. Some of them have also referred to this week's bullying story. Their remarks echo the principal's words about the situation  &ndash;  <em>tremendously sad and extremely delicate</em>. They all lament the way the…
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				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 09:27:06 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Jake Pollock</title>
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						<p>TGS wasn't in disarray in the '90s, it was just under construction. I mean, there was plenty of rioting after hours and the odd fake bomb scare, but it was all in good fun.</p><p>But on second thoughts, maybe it is best to steer clear of the place. All of…</p>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 13:52:17 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>InternationalObserver</title>
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						<blockquote>There was a moment in an Amtrak dining car when I felt on the point of it, but then the food arrived.</blockquote>On behalf of all men everywhere &mdash; I salute you.
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 13:40:06 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Don Christie</title>
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						<p>"We tell our daughter that girls can do anything"</p><p>Damn straight. You could also send her to Wellington. I tell my 8 year old that we are giving her an unfair advantage in the toughness stakes by living here. She still believes me, on a good day.</p>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 12:53:50 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>insider outsider</title>
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						Isn't Margare the posh way of saying Mangere?
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 12:46:13 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Robyn Gallagher</title>
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						<blockquote><p>It referred throughout the letter to “Mary-Margare”.</p></blockquote><p>You should tell them they've spelt it wrong. It's actually Mary-Mangere.</p>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 09:55:32 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Tom Semmens</title>
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						<p>Oh yes, my best friend proposed to his fiance by taking her away for her birthday to a flash hotel and writing "Will you marry me?" in rose petals on the bed for her to see when they got back from dinner.</p><br /><br /><p>I told him that all this raising the…</p>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 09:38:04 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Tom Semmens</title>
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						When it comes to picking a school, as the product of a private single sex religious school and having observed the interactions of everyone I know, I would say an integrated upper decile state school is the best option for trying to get the balance right between proper socialisation and…
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 09:32:44 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Paul Brislen</title>
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						Oh, and it did! Stand down, Russell. Back to the studio with you.
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 09:15:34 +1300</pubDate>
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				<title>Paul Brislen</title>
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						<p>I like a good proposal story if only because on TV the guy always comes up with an elaborate proposal (helicopters! Rings hidden in cakes! Baby jaguars!) and it NEVER comes off the right way.</p><p>Good story from Neil Gaiman about a chap who asked for his help proposing to…</p>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 09:15:09 +1300</pubDate>
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						<p>Discussion from blog post.</p>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 09:15:09 +1300</pubDate>
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