Public Address | Cafe | Access: The Fall https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/ en-us Copyright (c) 2026 Public Address Hilary Stace https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/access-the-fall/?p=373580#post373580 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/access-the-fall/?p=373580#post373580 Mon, 19 Jun 2017 16:18:25 +1200 Rosemary McDonald https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/access-the-fall/?p=373573#post373573 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/access-the-fall/?p=373573#post373573 Mon, 19 Jun 2017 14:03:56 +1200 BenWilson https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/access-the-fall/?p=373570#post373570 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/access-the-fall/?p=373570#post373570 I wasn’t sure if that was clear, going by your comment.

I got that the housework assistance was something that made a difference at the right time, although it could have just been unwanted and unwelcome at other times.

But yes, it wasn't clear to from the time frames whether…

]]> Mon, 19 Jun 2017 13:22:34 +1200 Chelle Hope https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/access-the-fall/?p=373563#post373563 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/access-the-fall/?p=373563#post373563 Thanks, Ben.

No, I have absolutely no regrets about not accepting more help at the time. I didn't need it until I got sick. Then that extra pressure on my time and energy got too much, which is when I asked for help. Getting extra help with housework has meant…

]]> Mon, 19 Jun 2017 12:37:14 +1200 BenWilson https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/access-the-fall/?p=373557#post373557 https://publicaddress.net/system/cafe/access-the-fall/?p=373557#post373557 All of my best wishes for that recovery and thank you for a wonderful telling of a horrendous episode. A retelling can be a kind of emotional cauterization, a bookend to a chain of thoughts.

I fully get the whole thing of not accepting help, even though you probably regretted…

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