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Access: You Can Call Me Brave Now

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  • Mary Anne,

    I hope your operation goes well and there are no glitches.
    Good luck with your recovery Brave person.

    Wellington • Since Sep 2014 • 1 posts Report Reply

  • Hilary Stace,

    Thank you for writing about this.

    Wgtn • Since Jun 2008 • 3229 posts Report Reply

  • Brent Jackson,

    In that case, anything a person decides to do or not, is an act of bravery in the face of uncertainty.

    I think the degree of braveness is in the irreversibility of the option. Inaction is the easier option, so actively instigating an irreversible option is definitely brave.

    I fervently hope it improves your life.

    Auckland • Since Nov 2006 • 620 posts Report Reply

  • Tim Michie,

    I fervently hope it improves your life.

    Sincerely, I couldn't say it better.

    Auckward • Since Nov 2006 • 614 posts Report Reply

  • Cecelia,

    I wish you well for your operation and hope you keep us posted. Bravery is a funny thing and I think you've nailed it here in your explanation.

    Hibiscus Coast • Since Apr 2008 • 559 posts Report Reply

  • Chelle Hope, in reply to Mary Anne,

    Thank you so much.

    Hastings • Since May 2014 • 61 posts Report Reply

  • Chelle Hope, in reply to Hilary Stace,

    Cheers. I think it was good for me to write it.

    Hastings • Since May 2014 • 61 posts Report Reply

  • Chelle Hope, in reply to Brent Jackson,

    Thank you very much. I hope so, too.

    Hastings • Since May 2014 • 61 posts Report Reply

  • Chelle Hope, in reply to Tim Michie,

    Cheers. Thanks for reading.

    Hastings • Since May 2014 • 61 posts Report Reply

  • Chelle Hope, in reply to Cecelia,

    Thank you for the good wishes. Bravery is a very strange thing. It's somehow considered a bit wrong to call yourself brave. I think it has helped me though in the acknowledgement that this a big deal and to give myself a break when I have moments when I am not coping very well.

    Hastings • Since May 2014 • 61 posts Report Reply

  • Lilith __,

    Oh, Chelle. What an impossibly hard experience to have to go through. Thank you for writing about it. My very best thoughts and wishes to you. x

    Dunedin • Since Jul 2010 • 3895 posts Report Reply

  • Chelle Hope, in reply to Lilith __,

    Thank you.

    Hastings • Since May 2014 • 61 posts Report Reply

  • Chelle Hope, in reply to ,

    Thanks for reading. I'm not too concerned about pain. Given my paralysis, I'm not sure if I'll feel anything. Referred pain further up my leg is a bit concerning. Nerves can be tricky things. I'll just have to wait and see on that one. I'm most worried about infection as I've had some awful and worrying post-op experiences and I'm so prone to serious infection. I just have to hope it all goes to plan.

    Hastings • Since May 2014 • 61 posts Report Reply

  • B Jones,

    My grandfather in law lost his leg in his 80s, after an infection he couldn't shake. It was hard for him at his age to get used to his reduced mobility, but he was philosophical about it, and declared that plenty of his age-mates came back from the war minus a limb, and he had his for 60 years longer than them.

    I wonder if anyone's done a good history of attitudes to disability, because I imagine they change over time just as medical and social circumstances shift the numbers of people affected by and surviving with disabilities.

    Wellington • Since Nov 2006 • 976 posts Report Reply

  • Christine Peet,

    Have you been given a time frame for when you might have your surgery? I know for me (also with Spina Bifida) stays in hospita/surgery never gets any easier. Best wishes.

    New Zealand • Since May 2014 • 28 posts Report Reply

  • Angela Hart,

    Chelle, it is a big deal and a very difficult thing to deal with. I'm not sure you really have a choice, but your decision is made and it's one of hope, faith and trust. Now that the uncertainty about what to do is gone, you can focus on getting through it and recovering. Provided your infection risk is reduced, I suspect you won't look back, once you're out of hospital. Have you planned for rehab? All the best.

    Christchurch • Since Apr 2014 • 614 posts Report Reply

  • Russell Brown,

    Just to let everyone know: Chelle has had her amputation, and while she's been dealing with pain and discomfort in recent days, the surgical side of things seems to have gone very well. Let's all hope her recovery is swift.

    Auckland • Since Nov 2006 • 22850 posts Report Reply

  • Rosemary McDonald, in reply to Russell Brown,

    Thank you for the update Russell.

    It is a big and brave step to take Chelle, and I wish you all the best.

    Speaking with other people living with SB who have had to undergo the same surgery....you WILL start to feel better. Constantly dealing with wounds and infections, taking antibiotics....makes you feel like crap.

    Please take care of yourself.

    Waikato, or on the road • Since Apr 2014 • 1346 posts Report Reply

  • Brent Jackson,

    Saw this article on Stuff, and thought of you, Chelle. Hope things are progressing well for you.

    Auckland • Since Nov 2006 • 620 posts Report Reply

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